Wednesday, February 22, 2012

On Lonely Roads

We're born alone, we live alone, and we will die alone.

Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone.
The illusion never lasts long. You have to wake up from the sleep, you can't sleep always and keep dreaming how beautiful and how you are surrounded by the people.

We can't live like Truman Burbank( Jim Carry from The Truman Show). The place where everything is nearly perfect. The whole life is written script and we all know what is going to happen. We can never decide who can be in our life or our part is over and the show is over so you are out of the show. In real world it doesn't happen like people come unannounced they live there make themself important to you, start making you feel special and after sometime their comes complications and people find that it might get messy and the best option is to get away from it. No one wants to be with you.

I love being alone, but i need someone to talk and I need someone to share my emotions. But in today's world no one wants to be with you. Everyone looks for the time pass, so that his time is passed smoothly and no one has any prob.

Then a big question arises "How can live so lonely?"

The answer to that is very simple Internet. Hmmmm what can u do on Internet browse.. Then the only option left in front of you to live a virtual live on the Internet. that you can achieve with the help of Twitter, Facebook, Myspace and lot of other social networking site.

People get addicted to such social websites. And trust me this is the best place to do bakar(to have fun). You can open your heart and write whatever comes to your head. And make a stand fight for your points. Their you don't have to think about others emotions that you might hurt a friend, who cares if I think I am right I will fight for it. But in today's world person who spends most of the time in fornt of the comp is either a SoftwareEngineer ;) or a person who doesn't have a real friend.

Or having a lonesome time is also amazing. going for the movie alone, roaming around alone is the mast fun you can have.

Or best thing you can do is adopt a pet. You will enjoy taking care and the attention you will receive from it.

Or develop some hobby which You will love to do.
As we all know the thing which our body is obliged to do is called Play and our body is not obliged to do is the work.
Their are different categories of people around you:-
  • who cares about you in true sense.
  • who just want to be with you because they think you are cool or happening
  • who wants masala, gossip so that they can fill small place in their hearts.
Its up to you to chose what kind of people you want to be. whether you want to be fake and enjoy the life of the person who is not you, or to be the person who is actually you.

But the true fact is that my friend no one wants to see the true thing about the person. Because how much true you want to be it will be boring for them and they won't like you at all. Because you will always find 3 category of people around you. 1st category is rarest.

If you have got a true and devoted friends trust me never let them go away. They are like precious gems for you.

The most important thing, nothing is permanent. and thats the beauty of life.





4 comments:

  1. Nice One dude !!...liked the whole thought :)

    We need people to talk and to fill our lonliness...because we want to fool ourselves that we are not lonely....but as a tendency we do develop the care and concern for people we come across...I feel its not about faking it, its just the way we are...

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  2. "The way we are" is not correct.. the way will b right if we stay they same way and don change for if a new person enters our lyf.. ;)

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  3. I must admit, somehow I could relate to the mere design of this page. And this is the post to which, again, I could relate to.

    Very well written. I share the same poignancy in my life. Most of the times, you have people around. But still you are alone.

    Thats the fact, and reality. You are alone all the time, but the world doesnt let you feel it. It slams a mask on your face, and you tend to get lost, until someday, when you talk to the mirror to realise, its nothing. Empty.

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  4. thanks for so kind words..
    It was just attempt to relate the feelings... and trust me everyone has the same feeling but unable to express them..

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